Modern Day Trend: Does Long Distance relationship REALLY work? [Part-2]

“Relationship doesn’t break by going far far..Neither does it grow by staying close..It’s pretty complex to understand..Yet so simple When we keep in Touch”

"Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss."

“Death isn’t the greatest loss in life..The greatest loss is when relationship dies between two people while they are still alive”

“Distance never breaks any relationship and Closeness never builds any relationship..If feelings are true from heart then special person always remains special “

Are these just quotes or forward messages we send across to our lovers when they are away? Do we really mean it or just soothe our hearts by recalling these wordings? Heart always needs a reason for whatever we do which involves feelings, emotions and care for someone. Then why doesn’t our heart really soothe, even after telling it that there is indeed someone at a distance from us, waiting to be with us but can’t because of the situation. Why are we really not able to accept the thought that sometimes distance is unavoidable in a relationship and it needs to be nurtured with love, care and trust when partners are away?

Some statements we end up saying or hearing from our friends, who are having long distance relationship……………………………..

“Hey Sneha, what’s the plan for Valentine’s day baby? My bf is coming up tomorrow and we going to have a real good time”. Sneha, felt depressed listening all this, after all her bf was busy in work and can’t take leaves to turn up and be there with her on this very day of lovers.

“Hey Sneha, what’s this babe, what happened to you, you looking very shabby today” What should Sneha tell her friends, whom should she get ready for every day? Who is there to admire her dressing style or appreciate her charm?

“Wow, see that couple Sneha, aren’t they looking too gud”. Sneha was wondering how should she tell her friend, people used to say the same for her couple also, when she used to hang out with her bf, but now she is aloneL

“Hey Sneha, come let’s check out the new pub in the city. Heard, it’s the rocking one”. “ No you gals carry on, I would check out with my bf, when he lands up here” Sneha has done that many times in past, refused from checking out new zone, after all she wants to explore that with her lover, but he hasn’t been able to come for months L

“What is this Varun, all my gf’s have their bf’s coming to meet them every month, it’s been 3 months you didn’t come, you know how much I am missing you L”, literally cried Sneha, while talking to her bf on the phone.

( Above statements were from gal’s perspective, same hold true for guys also with some modifications)

Are we so used to being pampered by our lovers, that we can’t even imagine spending days without them? Do we always need to be appreciated for our dressing looks, charm and someone there around us? We talk about trust, maturity and understanding, while going away from our lovers for some time, but do we really remember that? We keep cribbing about the absence of our lover, but do we really realize are we trying to sustain the relationship or denting it by making a fuss about the distance, when we knew before hand it would happen? Do we start getting carried away in other’s comfort zone, coz that person is besides us and our lover is not? Do we value feelings of heart, love more or Do we value Presence more, coz we have sum selfish interest attached to it?

Synopsis:
Suman and Ajay had a relationship going on from school time. It was nearing 8.5 years of strong bonded relationship, same school, same tution, same society, every time near and closer to each other. Career prospects bring Suman to Hyderabad and a long distance relationship starts after 8.5 years of bonding between the two. Suman makes good friends in Hyderabad in same company, close friend also and keeps Ajay informed about him too. Ajay lands up in Hyderabad to meet her , every 4 months and stays with her friend, she made. Ajay, in meanwhile, also hangs out with friends and enjoys back in hometown. Some tensions, some misunderstandings, fighting’s, creep in, but that doesn’t affect the 9 years old relationship…………So when it was nearing 10 years of relationship, Suman lands in hometown to be with him and celebrate the day together. But Ajay confesses something, which shatters everything? Did Ajay get carried away in her absence? Is physical closeness a must in every serious relationship? With options around, do guys and gals, get diverted from their priorities even in a very strong bonded relationship?...........

That’s up in next post…………………………………………. !!!

P.S.—All questions would be answered in the final post!!!.