Modern Day Trend : Should you let your Love go away ??

                                                             

“If u love someone 1st make sure that u are ready to sacrifice anything 4 your lover, Sometimes that sacrifice may be your love itself”

Love is the only selfless true feeling in this world which makes u seek happiness of your partner before your own happiness. The very essence of true love says that u should make sure u live upto the expectations of your partner and respect your lover’s wishes and desires . True loves might make u cry at times but u would still find smiling at the end of the day coz nothing can beat than seeing the smiling face of your lover. Many gals in teenage say that no ways they would ever cook, but make sure they keep sum cook or make their partner cook for them, but the same gal's when 1st time cook for their partner and see his loving satisfied face, they forget the pain they took in learning to cook and mess happened ………….But if being in relationship and love is so sweet, why should one let it go away, instead of making it work by using any means? Are we really left with no choice in life at times, but to let our love go away………Are there situations in life when we are left with no choice but to sacrifice our relationship? Time to have a reality check…………………

                                                              

It’s said somewhere that “ Never expect anything in return from anyone”…………But the truth is “ when we really care for sum1, we naturally start expecting a little care from them….!!!”

Same is the case in the story of Shagun and Varun. Varun really cared for Shagun a lot and they entered into love relationship mutually, with each other’ hearts appealing for each other. Varun made it clear to Shagun about his views in life , his financial problems and the responsibilities he had over his shoulder, on being the only source of income for whole family. Shagun came from quite a luxurious lifestyle , where she as pampered and treated like a princess by her parents, so she would naturally expect the same from her lover, but she knew Varun is not in a state to give her materialistic pleasure and she was quite understanding. Whenever Varun felt bad that like other guys he is not able to spend lavishly on his gf and gift her luxurious items, she would always say” Ur love compensates for everything and that’s what I desire” and the relationship stretched happily for 5 years, with dreams of being with each other in future floating around. Varun always had a feeling will Shagun be able to adjust from her luxurious lifestyle and adjust in his middle class family………………..

Finally, with a twist in the tale, when it was time for parents to find a guy for Shagun, they rejected Varun citing horoscope , status issues and more on financial thing as they felt Varun already taking care of 4 people, how would he manage and take care of their princess daughter. They didn’t want their daughter to suffer. But they never noticed that at just an age of 25, Varun was feeding his parents, giving them all necessities of life , making his bro study abroad and he taking care of his needs away from family. But what was shocking that Shagun declined to marry Varun, citing same reasons. She said that when it was love it was fine, but it’s about marriage and she has very much expectations from her partner and she wants the best of things in life and materialistic items do play a big role, and when u lead a luxurious life, love happens automatically !!! The same gal who used to be contended with true love, today was giving priority to materialistic pleasure over true emotions. Varun tried explaining her that his bro would be working in sum months, everything would be fine, he would look for better salary job, but nothing cud convince her and relationship ended abruptly…………

But, such strong bonding was there that even after mismatch of views, they still cried and longed for each other and had a strong affection for each other. Neither of them was able to forget each other after the strong relationship they shared for 5 years. Finally, Shagun couldn’t control and came back to Varun saying that “ I can’t live without you, I can’t go against my parents wishes, I need a luxurious life also like my other friends. But I am ready to go against my parents wishes and sacrifice all materialistic stuff and be with u……..Now u take a call”. Varun could make out what she meant and he could read between her wordings. She indirectly wanted to break up, but didn’t want any blame to be put on her, so she was putting the ball in his court so that tom he doesn’t go out saying Shagun dumped him. He knew she loved him so much that if he tries to convince her, she would agree and be with him………..But , Varun let her go and let his relationship go away for good……………………….

Was Varun mad? That’s what he wanted always, to have Shagun as his partner and when she is ready, he is not ready to accept her? Why??? Why???

                                  

 To be continued..........................