Modern Day Trend: Are gals using guys for their advantage? [ Part-3 ]
Delhi University, the most sought after University in whole of India and even acclaimed in most parts of the world also. But here we would be talking about glamour, fashion, crowds, fun, masti which goes in the colleges, not studies, which is not even my cup of teaJ. Before I go ahead with talking about Delhi University, I would like to talk something about the word “Flirting” here. Well, talking from a gal’s perspective, flirting is something which they like if in limits, which they find rather cheap, disgusting, outdated stuff and blah blah. From a guy’s perspective, flirting is the coolest medium to impress gals, a way to strike a conversation, natural capability and blah blah.
In my perspective, people end up calling others flirts, just to hide their insecurity and when they can’t really reciprocate to sumone’s feelings. For example, if tomorrow a gal is committed, and a guy approaches her and says few lovely words, she would say get a life loser, such a big flirt, stop flirting yaar etc etc……..But if her bf says the same loving words to her, she would say “ oh my baby, love u too, so sweet, my cutie pie” Where does the difference then lies when the wordings are same?? It’s the perspective and mentality of the person whom such feelings are expressed. A gal when she can’t reciprocate to someone’s feelings, she would disregard him as flirt and say that his feelings are casual, but infact she is already committed and can’t do that, so that’s her way of tackling this or even if she is single, not ready to mingle, she would tell her heart that I knw he is flirting, he is not serious, so I neglected his feelings. But do gals really realize by their ignorant ways at times they dump of genuine feelings or degrade a pure heart also? I agree, gals would counter that, you don’t know, 90% are cheap flirts and we gals can make out. But can you gals make out who is a caring heart without even interacting with him? ?? Think over once gals, before next time, you end up hurting a caring heart……………..
( I haven’t talked about guy’s perspective here, which would come in my future posts )
We are now heading towards the Delhi University campus, where we would talk about three gals: Saloni, a stylish, fashionable, hot gal. Shagun, a sober, decent, cute gal. Reema, an insecure, wannabe, average looking gal. All the three are quite good friends and always seen together hanging out, shopping, doing masti, in short a gang of 3 gals. Reema, even though she boasts of being a very good friend but infact is jealous of other two gals, coz they look little better than her, have a faire complexion and better pleasing personality. Even though Reema, had the best personality traits and sharp features, amongst the three, still she felt that she never got any attention from any guys. Any guy, be her friend, colleague, would come up to her and ask “Yaar, where are ur friends, make me talk to them na. See how much hot they look, etc etc” Even when they are roaming in malls, she would find that guys would be staring at other two and she would feel let down. Both of the friends tried making her understand that come on don’t be insecure, you also have lots of fan following, but she felt they were always pulling her leg. Reema, from start always have desired, she also be a centre of attraction, guys would also approach her, she wants to be also labeled as the most sought after gal in the college, but she felt she lacked that zing in her personality. They say when a person is insecure and desperate to make things happen in life, at times they get carried away in wildest dreams and end up doing which they never thought they would do.
She comes up with the idea, which she felt that can get the attention of guys and crowds towards her. They say “When in Rome, do what Romans do “, so if to attract guys, do what pleases them. So next day onwards, she changed her dressing style to that of the one of an ultra modern gal, wearing all kinda of revealing dresses, exposure at its best. Change of Kajol type gal to Bipasha Basu style. A transformation took everyone by surprise and even her friends, were shocked what is she upto. They confronted her, but she was blunt” that’s how I want to dress up, why you jealous , when now guys giving me attention and not to u both ??”. So a simple gal changed into the one who flirted around with guys, wearing all types of dresses to excite the gals, late nites. What she achieved by it was that she always had company of guys around her and she became the hot property of any party she went. “When you have it , so flaunt it, flirting is nothing bad to do, when you get wholesome attention “ Hahahahaa, and life went on for Reema.
Snapshot : A simple gal is insecure and jealous when her friends get male attention more and she is hardly approached. She always wanted to be a wannabe, with people at her feet, lingering around her, pampering her, but she didn’t have that oomph factor or looks to kill. But they say make over and can transform the luck also, so did it for Reema. Reema felt that if by little flirting, exposure, I can get the right , my kinda attention so why not do that, after all it would be on my terms and people around me, vying for my attention.
Do gals right in blaming that it’s the guys mentality which make them change their priorities? Is getting into all wrong stuff, just for attention, justified? If guys find most of the gals flirting around, would they even care for decent gals, whom they think are hard to please? Do guys and gals, change their priorities seeing each other’s views?
Next part:
Ranjeet is a flirt, always looking to make out with gals, where as Tarun is someone who values relationships a lot, value gals and feels physical pleasure only with partner. Ranjeet’s skills gets him gals like Reema ( above) easily and he is able to make out in a very short span time of meeting them, where as Tarun is happy in a relationship with cute, decent gal, and never thinks of physical. Ranjeet tells Tarun about gals like Reema, vying for attention. Would this influence Tarun? Would he still value his cute gf? Would he get carried away and rubbish of his views of post marital love making?
All to come later …………………………
P.S---I would again reiterate, in no ways, should my posts be taken as hard and fast rule neither I am against gals or guys. I am here to talk about things which normally happen in different kinds of relationships. I am just trying to illustrate some typical real life scenarios, where guys are taken for granted by the gals coz of their foolishness, selfish interest of some gals, and modern day trends.
In my perspective, people end up calling others flirts, just to hide their insecurity and when they can’t really reciprocate to sumone’s feelings. For example, if tomorrow a gal is committed, and a guy approaches her and says few lovely words, she would say get a life loser, such a big flirt, stop flirting yaar etc etc……..But if her bf says the same loving words to her, she would say “ oh my baby, love u too, so sweet, my cutie pie” Where does the difference then lies when the wordings are same?? It’s the perspective and mentality of the person whom such feelings are expressed. A gal when she can’t reciprocate to someone’s feelings, she would disregard him as flirt and say that his feelings are casual, but infact she is already committed and can’t do that, so that’s her way of tackling this or even if she is single, not ready to mingle, she would tell her heart that I knw he is flirting, he is not serious, so I neglected his feelings. But do gals really realize by their ignorant ways at times they dump of genuine feelings or degrade a pure heart also? I agree, gals would counter that, you don’t know, 90% are cheap flirts and we gals can make out. But can you gals make out who is a caring heart without even interacting with him? ?? Think over once gals, before next time, you end up hurting a caring heart……………..
( I haven’t talked about guy’s perspective here, which would come in my future posts )
We are now heading towards the Delhi University campus, where we would talk about three gals: Saloni, a stylish, fashionable, hot gal. Shagun, a sober, decent, cute gal. Reema, an insecure, wannabe, average looking gal. All the three are quite good friends and always seen together hanging out, shopping, doing masti, in short a gang of 3 gals. Reema, even though she boasts of being a very good friend but infact is jealous of other two gals, coz they look little better than her, have a faire complexion and better pleasing personality. Even though Reema, had the best personality traits and sharp features, amongst the three, still she felt that she never got any attention from any guys. Any guy, be her friend, colleague, would come up to her and ask “Yaar, where are ur friends, make me talk to them na. See how much hot they look, etc etc” Even when they are roaming in malls, she would find that guys would be staring at other two and she would feel let down. Both of the friends tried making her understand that come on don’t be insecure, you also have lots of fan following, but she felt they were always pulling her leg. Reema, from start always have desired, she also be a centre of attraction, guys would also approach her, she wants to be also labeled as the most sought after gal in the college, but she felt she lacked that zing in her personality. They say when a person is insecure and desperate to make things happen in life, at times they get carried away in wildest dreams and end up doing which they never thought they would do.
She comes up with the idea, which she felt that can get the attention of guys and crowds towards her. They say “When in Rome, do what Romans do “, so if to attract guys, do what pleases them. So next day onwards, she changed her dressing style to that of the one of an ultra modern gal, wearing all kinda of revealing dresses, exposure at its best. Change of Kajol type gal to Bipasha Basu style. A transformation took everyone by surprise and even her friends, were shocked what is she upto. They confronted her, but she was blunt” that’s how I want to dress up, why you jealous , when now guys giving me attention and not to u both ??”. So a simple gal changed into the one who flirted around with guys, wearing all types of dresses to excite the gals, late nites. What she achieved by it was that she always had company of guys around her and she became the hot property of any party she went. “When you have it , so flaunt it, flirting is nothing bad to do, when you get wholesome attention “ Hahahahaa, and life went on for Reema.
Snapshot : A simple gal is insecure and jealous when her friends get male attention more and she is hardly approached. She always wanted to be a wannabe, with people at her feet, lingering around her, pampering her, but she didn’t have that oomph factor or looks to kill. But they say make over and can transform the luck also, so did it for Reema. Reema felt that if by little flirting, exposure, I can get the right , my kinda attention so why not do that, after all it would be on my terms and people around me, vying for my attention.
Do gals right in blaming that it’s the guys mentality which make them change their priorities? Is getting into all wrong stuff, just for attention, justified? If guys find most of the gals flirting around, would they even care for decent gals, whom they think are hard to please? Do guys and gals, change their priorities seeing each other’s views?
Next part:
Ranjeet is a flirt, always looking to make out with gals, where as Tarun is someone who values relationships a lot, value gals and feels physical pleasure only with partner. Ranjeet’s skills gets him gals like Reema ( above) easily and he is able to make out in a very short span time of meeting them, where as Tarun is happy in a relationship with cute, decent gal, and never thinks of physical. Ranjeet tells Tarun about gals like Reema, vying for attention. Would this influence Tarun? Would he still value his cute gf? Would he get carried away and rubbish of his views of post marital love making?
All to come later …………………………
P.S---I would again reiterate, in no ways, should my posts be taken as hard and fast rule neither I am against gals or guys. I am here to talk about things which normally happen in different kinds of relationships. I am just trying to illustrate some typical real life scenarios, where guys are taken for granted by the gals coz of their foolishness, selfish interest of some gals, and modern day trends.
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