Modern Day Trend: Are gals using guys for their advantage? [ Part-4 ]

Tarun was like any other average looking , down to earth guy and valued relationships/emotions of others. He always was in support of being decent and nice with females and not treat them as sexual objects like other guys of his generation. As compared to him, his friend Ranjeet had other ideas in life. He felt that every gal has some desire in life and its all bout skills to know them, and work upon them to impress them and have them in your arms. Even though Tarun and Ranjeet, were best of the friends from a long time, they never seemed to agree when the topic of gals was raised. Ranjeet flirted around, hanging out with gals, while Tarun always thought of having just one gal in life, who be sweet, cute and value relationships like him. Ranjeet always ridiculed him and said that, come on gals also want fun, masti in life, there are plenty available, I can get you one whenever you want. Actually, Raj was fascinated by physical stuff talks when Ranjeet used to tell him he had with various gals he dated, but Tarun always had a viewpoint of having with one gf, whom he would be serious of.

Finally luck bestowed and Tarun got the right gal and everything seemed fine. He enjoyed his relationship with the gal and used to tell Ranjeet see this is what relationship is about and he cherishes a lot now. Ranjeet told him, come on dude, she would be a very conservative types, getting into all this love stuff, try asking for physical stuff, and you would get a kick. Yeah , why not, Tarun told Ranjeet, she is my gf now and loves me, so she wont mind making out with me. But Tarun, got a rude shock when his gf declined to do anything like that citing reasons she is from conservative background and doesn’t believe in all this. Tarun was taken aback and he said that he always belived that gals always have a desire and would like to make out only with whom they love, have feelings for. Gf explained its not like that, but she doesn’t wanna get into all this before marriage. Tarun got mad and told her, its because of you gals we guys are not able to enjoy, have fun or be into one relationship. Its better to atleast be with gals who are willing to make out with relationship, and are easily accessible. He went ahead and said that, he was fool to have wasted time on her, better we would have listened to Ranjeet. He felt cheated and felt that better to be after gals who are into all flirting, making out and easy going than to value and respect a cute/decent gal, who would only give emotions and no other pleasure.

Snapshot : A guy who cares a lot for relationships, is decent in his approach, has a desire to make out with gals, but restricts his views to have with only his gf. On contrary another guy feels that gals also have desire and its just skill required to judge that and then they would be easy prey. He was always seen with new gals, who were easily accessible and flirted around , just like him. The decent guy’s views are shattered when he is refused physical contact by his cute gf, coz of her conservative views. This made him blast the gal and tell her that there are plenty of gals available who are ready to make out, even without relationship, and he just wasted time in being decent and true in a relationship.

Its not about just physical desire thing, but why do guys have the mindset that there are gals available who are ready to make out anytime? What makes a guy’s priorities change, is it either conservative views of his gf or availability of gals who also flirts and plays around? Can priorities of a person take a back seat, when they find easy options available in life? Aren’t there guys who just want physical relationship and who helps them in this, some section of gals, which degrade the whole female society, who can do anything to get attention?

The above example was in continuation with the story of the gal I told yesterday and this was one side effect of such types of gals around today, who can go to any extent in getting unwanted attention or be centre of attraction always in life.

Next Part :
A gal was seriously committed in a relationship, used to share everything with her best friend, who was always there to help his friend and be a support to her whenever she felt down in her relationship. Fate changes and the gal breaks up with her bf, the best friend lends his shoulder and the gals gets an emotional, comforting support to come out of the break up. The gal was aware that his best friend always liked her and would do everything to make her happy, she was aware of his secret feelings, but she always took him as the support she wanted at that stage of her life. Finally, gal comes across another guy in her life and discloses the same to her best friend and at the same time her best friend admits his feelings for her. Whom would the gal choose now? Will it be the best friend whose shoulder she used to come out of her break up or the guy whom she got attracted towards? Who would lose and who would win? Next time……………………

P.S—I have no intention of showing the guys as despos/lusty or degrade the image of gals. Physical aspect is reflected just to highlight one aspect which also prevails amongst guys and gals of modern world and should be taken in positive way.

P.P.S - All sorts of comments are more than welcome !!!