Modern Day Relationship : How it starts and How should it ACTUALLY start[ Part-1]
"He dumped me........" "He used me and left me........" " I can’t love anymore in life........." "He betrayed my trust........." " All guys are bastards........"
These are the common wordings/quotes we end up hearing from gals when they find themselves dumped or after the relationship ends on a wrong note. I have come across plenty of such cases in real life, social networking sites after interacting with females in past..............So I am always surrounded by thoughts, are only guys responsible for such ugly scenario after what seems like a “god made couple” in starting? Are gals right in blaming just the guys or somewhere they are also responsible.................???????
Talking about a typical scenario, which normally happens in college, school, day to day life, corporate world, where both genders come into contact and feelings ,emotions, intentions, selfish interests are on a rise and Relationship make or break every hour...............
Abhi and shagun are quite gud friends, know each other from quite a while, spending time together, hanging out together with bunch of friends, more or less they know in and out about each other.
Shagun is a kind of gal who is more focused on her career, living life to fullest and away from relationships, for two reasons. 1st she has seen her friends around her, who keep on crying, cribbing about their bf's and she feels being in relationship might make her sick, so better be with friends and enjoy life as it comes.2nd, she knows she would be marrying the guy of her parent's choice, so why to get into any casual relationship which would not result into anything concrete in future.
Abhi is kind of guy who is cool, bindaas types, takes life easy, focused for sure towards his career too and likes to have company of friends around, flirts at times with gals, but in limits. He is away from all bad habits and doesn’t find solace in company of his guys friends mostly, coz they talk about gals, and other cheap stuff. He has a desire to have sum one special in life, but not able to find that one.............
One fine day, he takes keen interest in the movie "Kuch Kuch Hota Hai" and starts thinking/seeing Shagun as the one whom he would love to have as partner in life. He thinks about the past time he has spent with her and realizes that its only Shagun who can understand him, read his silence and make about things going on in his mind. This is the kind of gal he has always dreamed of. He calls himself stupid that why didn’t he realize this fact before in life. But luckily, he smiles, nothing is lost coz Shagun is still single, even though he has asked her to make a bf from a long time. He makes up his mind to let shagun know of his thoughts, before she actually heeds his advice and make sum one else her bf..........He plans to make casual friendship with Shagun to more than friendship………………………………
Snapshot : Does Abhi has feelings for Shagun? Did Abhi really think what exactly are Shagun's viewpoints towards future? Abhi just got carried away with the thought that the gal whom he spends time with and the gal who knows her from long time, spend time with him, would be able to make a good partner as she would understand him in a better way.............
Will Shagun also agree to Abhi's thoughts? Will Shagun actually see if Abhi actually has feelings for her??
To be Contd..................................
These are the common wordings/quotes we end up hearing from gals when they find themselves dumped or after the relationship ends on a wrong note. I have come across plenty of such cases in real life, social networking sites after interacting with females in past..............So I am always surrounded by thoughts, are only guys responsible for such ugly scenario after what seems like a “god made couple” in starting? Are gals right in blaming just the guys or somewhere they are also responsible.................???????
Talking about a typical scenario, which normally happens in college, school, day to day life, corporate world, where both genders come into contact and feelings ,emotions, intentions, selfish interests are on a rise and Relationship make or break every hour...............
Abhi and shagun are quite gud friends, know each other from quite a while, spending time together, hanging out together with bunch of friends, more or less they know in and out about each other.
Shagun is a kind of gal who is more focused on her career, living life to fullest and away from relationships, for two reasons. 1st she has seen her friends around her, who keep on crying, cribbing about their bf's and she feels being in relationship might make her sick, so better be with friends and enjoy life as it comes.2nd, she knows she would be marrying the guy of her parent's choice, so why to get into any casual relationship which would not result into anything concrete in future.
Abhi is kind of guy who is cool, bindaas types, takes life easy, focused for sure towards his career too and likes to have company of friends around, flirts at times with gals, but in limits. He is away from all bad habits and doesn’t find solace in company of his guys friends mostly, coz they talk about gals, and other cheap stuff. He has a desire to have sum one special in life, but not able to find that one.............
One fine day, he takes keen interest in the movie "Kuch Kuch Hota Hai" and starts thinking/seeing Shagun as the one whom he would love to have as partner in life. He thinks about the past time he has spent with her and realizes that its only Shagun who can understand him, read his silence and make about things going on in his mind. This is the kind of gal he has always dreamed of. He calls himself stupid that why didn’t he realize this fact before in life. But luckily, he smiles, nothing is lost coz Shagun is still single, even though he has asked her to make a bf from a long time. He makes up his mind to let shagun know of his thoughts, before she actually heeds his advice and make sum one else her bf..........He plans to make casual friendship with Shagun to more than friendship………………………………
Snapshot : Does Abhi has feelings for Shagun? Did Abhi really think what exactly are Shagun's viewpoints towards future? Abhi just got carried away with the thought that the gal whom he spends time with and the gal who knows her from long time, spend time with him, would be able to make a good partner as she would understand him in a better way.............
Will Shagun also agree to Abhi's thoughts? Will Shagun actually see if Abhi actually has feelings for her??
To be Contd..................................
This teaser does leave you yearning for more... let's see more you have as a follow-up.
ReplyDeleteArvind Passey
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IS EKTA Kapoor reading ? Kahani ek dosti ki! sorry :-D
ReplyDelete@Arvind
ReplyDeleteThanks sir, you can check the rest of the parts for the follow up part :)
@Sonalee,
Wish that could happen, would be great if you forward the same to her, am sure you must be known to her :D
well i think abhi isnt really in love with shagun but it may be because of people he see around always with someone special, or may be when he saw the movie he got into the character, or he find couples holding hands, feeding each other or probably his friend circle all into some sort of relationship, then they keep raving about their partners. It sometimes leaves you in a deliema that you also have feelings for someone special or you need a someone special
ReplyDelete@Neetu,
ReplyDeleteRightly pointed out and as you go through the next few parts, you would find the pattern follows the same. I used this example to highlight how normally people get motivated from diff scenarios around them and feel the person around them is best suited for relationship. There is thin line between comfort zone and feeling love for someone !!